Selfless acts, with purpose?!?!

Translation
Dear Daddy and Sarah,
Don’t worry about making your bed.  I already did.
I love you.  Your the best. No need to thank me I’ll be in my room.
Love, Skyler
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My New Role

I have been writing this blog for nearly 2 years now.  I still love sharing stories of the kids and keeping the family updated on some of our goings-ons.  Throughout this process, my passion for writing has grown even deeper.  I am fascinated with the growing community of mommies on the web.  Mommies searching for community, advice, and fresh ideas.  Also, as a newbie to Omaha I am constantly searching for ways to network with other moms, writers, and the business community as a whole.

In pursuing the Internet the other day for my client, Pin Curl Girls, I stumbled across Momaha.com.  Momaha.com is a product of the Omaha World Herald – see more information on the website here.  They are in the process now of compiling a group of local mommy bloggers to help in the building of their site.  I applied and was offered the position the next day!:)

As a member of the Momaha Team I will be writing some more general blogs about life raising a blended family, life as a mom of 5, life as a step-mom, etc.  My unique roles are quite vast.  I’ll share the links here and hopefully some of you will enjoy!:)  My first post discussed the difficulties of keeping up with the laundry 7 people produces and a new trick I have discovered to help me not despise the process.  I’ll let you all know when the site is live and you can follow me there!:)

Zack’s Adventure in the Kitchen

Last week-end Zack and I ended up spending a lazy morning hanging on the couch together.  It was wonderful until we realized we had two hours before we needed to leave for Lincoln for Grandpa Jack’s birthday.  No one had showered, we still needed to make our culinary contribution, and get 5 kids loaded in the car!

I had decided to make Homemade Macaroni & Cheese from the Pioneer Woman’s web-site.  Please keep in mind that I have just discovered The Pioneer Woman about a month ago and it’s one of my new favorite things!  The author offers a beautiful step-by-step account of each recipe she provides.  The pictures and description allows for a fool proof way to create yummies!!!!!!
So, back to last week-end.  Zack and I were making the game plan of how to accomplish everything we needed to and avoid being late to the party!   He decides he could make the MacNCheese while I take a shower.  Now, this conversation ended up priceless:
Me:  Honey, are you sure?  It’s homemade, you’ll have to make a roux, etc.
Zack:  Babe, it’s this Pioneer Woman, Right?  She has pictures…nobody can screw that up.
Me:  For the record, I am worried!  This isn’t just chop, mix, and plop….
Zack:  I can handle this babe!  Go take a shower and don’t worry about it!
So, I head to the shower all the time thinking of how he was certainly going to burn the cheese sauce.  Zack doesn’t cook….at all.  He MIGHT make quesadillas which involves plopping some shredded cheese and meat on a tortilla and I just knew this wasn’t going to end up well.
I came out of the shower, dressed quickly and dried my hair…still worrying about what was happening in my kitchen.  I finally emerge from the bedroom and to my surprise the stuff looks delicious!!  I was shocked and so pleasantly surprised.  I also felt a little sad, like this is my thing — you can’t be good at cooking too!!  Zack’s a freaking genius.  A controls engineer that can do complex algebraic equations as simply as I would do addition or subtraction.  A guy that tutored and pulled me through my economics, finance, and managerial accounting courses for my MBA.  A guy that is undefeated at both Monopoly and Scrabble when playing with me.  This guy is smart he doesn’t need to steal “my thing.”
I begin cleaning up the kitchen and preparing the children to head out while he finishes the casserole.  Finally, he asks me to taste his dish and he is oh so proud.  He dishes up a small bite and places it in my mouth.  It takes every ounce of self-control I can muster not to spit it out.  AAAAAAAHAHAHAHA it takes like a big pile of gooey mustard!!!  What the heck?  This genius of mine didn’t recognize the difference between a tablespoon and a teaspoon…..

Yes, I still have my thing.  I am the cook, I’ll forever be the cook, and Zack is no longer trusted in the kitchen alone!!!! 🙂

Happy Halloween!!!!

Hope everyone had a fantastic Halloween!!  Our Halloween festivities began Thursday evening at Livie’s Daisy Scout Party.  Friday we attended the elementary school’s Harvest dance, Saturday the older kiddos attended a birthday party, and then we hosted a little mini pre-halloween party followed by a fabulous round of trick-or-treating in our neighborhood….SHEW what a busy week-end!!:)
Skyler rocked out a beautiful angel, Livie pranced around as the quintessential Fairy Princess, Trendon (and most of his friends) wanted nothing more than to be a character from Star Wars — he finally chose Anakin Skywaker, and Abbie happened in to Albert Einstein.  Her original choice was scientist but after I found white hair color spray at Wal-Mart we had to go all out!  She even went home with the best costume prize from the elementary schools costume contest!
We are already thinking about next year’s costumes and Skyler is adamant that I should make hers (like I half way made Abbie’s) so that she was have a chance to win the contest!:)  As of now, she wants to be an artist….the other kids don’t have a clue yet!
What were your kiddos for Halloween?  Did you make or buy their costumes?